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My Favorite Mayo Substitutes

Mayonnaise is fantastic. It goes on burgers, makes yummy salads, and is commonplace on nearly every picnic table in some form. But, it has some downsides, too. Mayo can be susceptible to bacterial growth if it is not kept cold. It contains eggs, which are healthy for some, but not so great for others. Commercial mayo usually contains heavily-refined oils, which aren’t great for humans. They may also contain “spices,” which are off-limits for those on strict elimination plans. So, what’s a person to do?! Make good choices, of course!

Real Mayonnaise

Real, homemade mayo can actually be part of a very healthy diet. Made with cage-free eggs, nutritious oils, mustard, and a little lemon juice, real mayo is a good option if it works within your food plan. Just beware the jars in the supermarket aisle claiming to be “real mayonnaise.” They frequently contain oils that have been chemically refined, and you won’t know that from reading the label. Look for specialty mayo touting “cold pressed” oils; you might even find these in a refrigerated section, if you’re lucky enough to be near a store that sells house-made mayo.

If you’re not, check out this quick and easy recipe from Paleo Running Mama!

Salad Dressing

“Miracle Whip” was not created to be healthier or tastier than mayo. It was created to be cheaper. While some people will have grown up eating Miracle Whip or its counterparts, and prefer it to mayo, don’t switch for “health reasons”. Salad dressings such as this are made from Water, heavily-refined and processed soybean oil, high-fructose corn syrup (also heavily processed and refined), modified corn starch (again with the processing), eggs, and a bunch of stabilizers and such to help the texture stay thick.

You may prefer it, and that’s fine! But Miracle Whip is not a healthy swap for mayo. Avoid if you’re shooting for wellness.

Yogurt

Yogurt made from milk from grass-fed cows that is free from gums, stabilizers, refined sugar, and artificial color is a good substitute for mayo in some cases – minus the granola and berries, of course! This works well for potato salad or macaroni salad, where the mayo (or mayo substitute) is frequently mixed with lots of other items. The mustard, onions, peppers, pickles, and other tasty items you use in those salads help to make the yogurt taste more like you expect!

Use care with this substitution, though. Dairy sitting out in an open container on a hot summer day isn’t much better than eggs doing the same.

Non-Dairy Yogurt

Yogurts made from “milks” other than dairy milk can be a real life-saver for the dairy-free community. Plus, there’s far less concern about eggs becoming icky in the heat during your picnic or outing. However, many of these contain LOADS of gums, stabilizers, flavorings, and sweeteners to make them look and feel more like dairy yogurt. Look for options with few or no additives instead. Also, many of these taste like what they’re made of, at least a little. Taste check before you wind up with unintentional coconut potato salad!

There are a few brands that make coconut milk yogurt to a wellness standard, like CoYo and Cocoyo. They are expensive and difficult to find. You can also make your own pretty easily!’

Vegenaise

This product isn’t just for vegans, it has been a real boon to those with egg allergies and sensitivities. You find it in the refrigerated section of your store’s “health food” area. It has a texture and appearance similar to mayonnaise, and a flavor closer to Miracle Whip, but not really.

This product is made with mostly OK ingredients, but does have a lot of refined oils and gums. For occasional use, it’s not horrible.

Toum (Lebanese Garlic Sauce)

Not for the feint of heart, or vampires, this one packs a whole lot of flavor! Use sparingly, because it is just straight, raw, garlic. But for topping a burger, or stirring into some pasta salad, it’s fantastic! It’s also amazing on grilled chicken, kabobs, and almost anything else you pull off the grill.

Give it a whirl with this easy recipe from Feel Good Foodie! (Protip – I usually use avocado oil instead of olive oil, because the avocado has a more neutral flavor. If the mixture seems to be getting too runny for my needs, I use a solid fat for part of the oil, like non-hydrogenated palm shortening or pastured lard.)

from Real World AIP

My Favorite! Sweet Onion “Mayo”

This recipe does take a little time and planning, but very little actual effort. All the time is in caramelizing the onions, which can be done on the stovetop, in the oven, in a toaster oven, in an InstantPot, or in a slow cooker. After that, it’s all adding ingredients and blending into mayo! This isn’t just my favorite mayo substitute, it’s actually BETTER than mayonnaise for some applications. This makes fabulous coleslaw and potato salad. It goes incredibly well as a topper for your burgers or a dip for your kabobs. You do not have to be dieting or healing to use this recipe!

I use the same tip here as for toum, above. Especially in warm weather, I’ll cut down on the liquid fat, and use some solid fat like coconut, palm, or lard. Get the recipe from Real World AIP!

What About You?

Do you have a favorite mayonnaise replacement not shown here? Tell us about it!

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Aromatherapy: Prepare for Your Appointment

Do you need to prepare for your aromatherapy appointment? How would you go about doing that?

Hold a Gripe Session

Maybe you do this all by yourself, so that your complaints don’t drag someone else down. Maybe you have an understanding partner or friend willing to give you some space and help out. Either way:

Write down some of the things that have been bothering you. This might include high stress, anxiety, sleeplessness, lack of energy, pain, and other general issues. This helps your aromatherapist choose oils that won’t make those conditions worse, even if they are not the issues you are looking to alleviate. Take this list with you to your appointment.

Gather Your Prescriptions and Supplements

Whether or not you choose to use aromatherapy to support medical diagnoses, this is important! Some essential oils have known interactions with certain drugs. Even if you are hoping to get better sleep, your aromatherapist should be aware of any potential for interaction. Take this list with you to your appointment.

Supplements such as vitamins and herbs can also have interactions or cause problems if they are mixed with certain oils.

In both cases, any issues can be mitigated by adapting the specific oil used, the way that oils is introduced to the body, or using the oil and medication at different times. Please see “How to Find an Expert Aromatherapist” if you do not feel this is happening in your situation!

Make It Medical

Unless your aromatherapist is also a licensed doctor or physician’s assistant, they cannot diagnose or treat medical issues. However, they do need to know about your medical issues! Write them down, and take that list with you, too.

This includes, but is not limited to, chronic diagnoses such as diabetes, heart disease, or autoimmune illness. It includes pregnancy, though that’s not really “medical,” and/or the desire to become pregnant. Your medical list should include diagnosed mental illness, in addition to any general complaints you may have.

Even if you are not on medication, this information is vital to your healing. Essential oils absolutely have the power to shift bodily function. Some of the compounds they contain are used in medicine today! Your condition could be changed in an unexpected way if you do not make them aware of it.

Don’t Forget Fido, Junior, and Grandma

The pets and people who live in your home may be affected by diffused oils, or those you use topically. Take a minute to add these household members to your list, just in case. Again, this can help guide your aromatherapist as they choose oils that will help you, but not harm your precious kitty.

That’s Really It!

There’s not much you need to do to prepare. Just go with an open mind, and be honest. That’s the best way to get the most from your experience!

For More on Aromatherapy:

Check out What is Aromatherapy?

Finding an Expert Aromatherapist

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Aromatherapy: Find an Expert Aromatherapist

There are a lot of people who use the term “aromatherapist” to describe what they do. Learn how to find one who really knows how to help!

Types of Aromatherapy Education

Traditional aromatherapists may have no formal training – the kind that results in a certificate. These individuals are likely to be highly educated on which oils to use for what maladies, and probably know of more than one oil to treat common ailments. A traditional aromatherapist may use products from several brands, and have their own philosophy related to the ingestion of essential oils. Sometimes, these individuals will ask a fee for their knowledge, other times they are just the wise person in your tribe.

Sales-based aromatherapists have been trained by a specific company to sell essential oils. They have been issued a certificate, and have received some formal training. They likely limit their practice to a single brand, and are unlikely to know much about oils not carried by that brand. They may or may not have an understanding of how the oils function, and are unlikely to be able to suggest oils for very specific needs. These individuals may also have a very hard stance on the ingestion of essential oils, pro or con, based on the philosophy of the brand. These individuals are highly unlikely to charge a professional fee for your visit, but are likely to offer high-priced oils.

Independently Certified aromatherapists have undergone formal training through an organization that is not in the business of selling the oils themselves. These individuals are likely to be able to explain how and why certain oils work for specific ailments. They may have developed a philosophy on ingesting oils that is based on a risk-versus-benefit model, rather than a staunch stance expected to work for every client. An independently certified aromatherapist may also have an understanding of the basic chemistry of oils, and some knowledge of their potential to interact with other foods or medications. They will very likely charge a fee for their professional services, as well as for any blends they create for you.

Which is Right for Me?

That depends on what is wrong with you! OK, there’s nothing “wrong” about you, probably, but your choice will depend on your level of need. If you’re interested in diffusing some nice-smelling oils that might help you be calm or feel an energy boost, any of the above will be perfect!

If you are interested in addressing a specific need or ailment, if you are on medication for a diagnosed condition, or if you don’t feel you respond to essential oils suggested by your friendly MLM oil salesperson*, you may wish to seek out someone who has been differently trained to work with these specific situations.

How Do I Find an Aromatherapist?

You probably have a friend on social media, or within your real-life group, who sells essential oils or knows who does. If you’d like to try out some lavender to see if it helps you sleep, just post that to Facebook and pick someone who answers. Or ask about it at church. Trust me, they’re out there.

If you’re looking for a traditional or independent aromatherapist, you may have to dig a little more deeply. Traditional aromatherapists are usually also herbalists, midwives, acupuncturists, or have jobs in other alternative healing methods. They may work at spas, massage therapy offices, or from their homes. Traditional aromatherapists may be more difficult to find – you might ask someone you know who takes herbal supplements, or enjoys alternative methods of healing. Independently Certified aromatherapy professionals may be found in the same way. Certified aromatherapists may also be found using the various registries available from the educating institutions, like these, but it is important to remember that not all professional aromatherapists choose to pay to maintain these associations:

National Association of Holistic Aromatherapists

International Federation of Professional Aromatherapists

How Do I Know?

Ahhh… This is the good stuff. In order to really know if an aromatherapist is the right one for you, you’ll need to ask some questions of them. It’s OK! They likely understand that this is a normal part of the process, and should not feel threatened to answer your inquiries.

It is acceptable to ask directly about their education and where they get their information. Ask specifically about your needs, and their experience with those issues or similar ones. Definitely inquire about their philosophy on ingesting oils, and more importantly, why they take that stance (For an independent analysis on the safety of ingesting essential oils, check out this no-nonsense article!). Most important, listen to their answers! Those responses should come from the person, and not be parroted information from a brochure or corporate memo, no matter where they were trained!

Most Important

There are two “most important” issues.

First, you should feel comfortable with your aromatherapist. You should feel secure that their knowledge matches your needs.

Second, you should see an improvement in your issues. If you do not, your aromatherapist should be able to do some tests and make some adjustments based on your responses, so that different oils with the same compounds can be used. This improvement may not be immediate. If you are using aromatherapy to support medical treatments or for more general use, this may not apply as readily. Again, this may come down to feelings – do you feel like your medical therapy is working better since you added aromatherapy?

Once you find the right aromatherapist for your needs, what’s next? Find out in the rest of the Aromatherapy series!

*MLM salespeople are not scammers. Scammers are scammers. MLM salespeople have not fallen victim to a pyramid scheme. They are normal people who believe in a product or brand, and choose to be in business for themselves as an ambassador for that brand. They can be very knowledgeable, helpful, and friendly. For more on the real truth about Multi-Level Marketing companies and essential oils, please click over here: Choosing Quality Essential Oils: To MLM or Not to MLM

For More on Aromatherapy:

“What is Aromatherapy?”

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What is Aromatherapy?

It seems simple. It’s “aroma” therapy, so it’s about smelling things. Right? If it would surprise you to know that even a person with no sense of smell can benefit from aromatherapy, read on! Of course, there are other reasons to keep reading, so don’t let any lack of surprise stop you.

Definitions

Aromatherapy is the therapeutic use of plant-derived, aromatic essential oils to promote physical and psychological well-being. Aromatherapy uses the chemical compounds from plants to boost specific brain functions, stimulate hormone production, lower bacterial loads, and encourage functions like digestion and detox.

Essential “oils” separating from the water during steam distillation.

Essential oils are not oils, really. They are the non-water-soluble compounds found in the plant, not including woods and fibers. For more extensive information on what essential oils are, exactly, check out these articles:

Essential Oil Terms and Definitions

Essential Oils: The Truth About Labeling

How Does Aromatherapy Work?

When used at its best, aromatherapy works in a way that is similar to other medications! Through both modern science and traditional observation, people have discovered that certain compounds help to resolve certain maladies.

These compounds can enter the body in many ways! They do not have to enter through the nose, and you do not have to smell them. There is much dispute over the safest and best ways to introduce essential oils to your body. Most common is by inhalation, but when done with a knowledgeable professional, both topical use and ingestion may be options. This is a much-debated topic, so more information can be found here:

Essential Oil Safety: Ingesting Essential Oils

Why is it Called Aromatherapy if You Don’t Have to Smell It?

Most of the compounds that are extracted from the plant in making an essential oil are the compounds that you smell when you sniff that plant. Since plants and their extracts have been used for centuries, it was first thought that smelling the aroma was what did the trick. Now, we know better, but the term sticks. Since those oils generally do have distinct odors, it isn’t an inaccurate description.

Who Can Benefit From Aromatherapy?

While current laws prevent most aromatherapists from diagnosing or treating disease, they might suggest specific oils to help you meet your goals. These goals might include all kinds of mental and emotional wellness. They might include boosting the immune system, or aiding brain function for clarity. Aromatherapy can be used to assist someone in losing weight, easing the symptoms of an illness, or in lifting physical pain from illness and injury.

Is Aromatherapy Safe?

Of course! Or not at all. Essential oils are kind of like modern prescription medication – safe if it’s right for you, potentially deadly if used improperly.

To be clear, it’s not easy to die from essential oils. It’s remotely possible, with a probability of something less than that of being eaten by a bear in Manhattan. But safety is an important issue. The possibility of injury or death is higher if you are on medications or have maladies that are not disclosed to your aromatherapist. That risk also increases when you are using the oils without training, or are connected with an aromatherapist who doesn’t have proper knowledge.

Learn More!

Coming up, we’ll discuss how to find a well-educated aromatherapist, how to prepare yourself to use aromatherapy successfully, what to expect during an appointment with your aromatherapist, and what to expect after that appointment.

If you haven’t already, please join us on Facebook in the Wild Wellness Discussion Group by Prayana Coaching! There, you can get answers and feedback from the whole group, participate in wellness challenges, and find support on your wellness journey!

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Reiki: What to Expect After Your Session

Now What?

You’ve learned what Reiki is. You chose a practitioner, prepared as much as you chose, and experienced a peaceful time. What’s supposed to happen now?

You may notice any, all, or none of the following. It is not necessarily an indication that Reiki isn’t working for you, or that you’re not with the right Reiki healer. Each of us comes to the table with different needs. More subtle shifts in energy will likely be more noticeable than larger ones, in a twist no one expects! But note any of these – it will help both you and your practitioner to be prepared or know where to focus for next time.

You May Feel Sleepy

This is maybe the most common easily-noted effect of Reiki treatments. Many people prefer to schedule their appointments for a time when they are able to go home and sleep or nap immediately afterward.

You May Feel Energized

In a previous article, I briefly discussed that your Reiki experience will be personalized to your needs. In some cases, an individual opens emotional or physical healing that has them leaving the table feeling lighter, more capable, or stronger.

This is not a result of the Reiki itself. If Reiki just gave people physical energy, it would be far more popular than coffee. It isn’t. No practitioner can just personalize their practice to give you some pep. But when a client is able to release heavy emotions, or find a great reduction in physical pain, they may feel a surge of energy. Yay!

You May Feel Thirsty

Reiki can boost the body’s natural digestion and detox. In order to detox, your organs need water. Ideally, they need it all the time! As your body is aligned to a place where it wants to eliminate waste, your thirst is telling you to help it do that job.

Don’t make your body tell you this. Just drink plenty of water before and after your Reiki session.

You May Feel Empowered

If you have come to your session full of stressors and questions, you may find some clarity with Reiki. Use this carefully! Don’t make any major decisions, like quitting a job or moving cross-country, for a day or two after your session.

You May Feel Healed

Be careful! I mean, yay! For real, Reiki is amazing and some people have shown dramatic improvement in physical ailments after receiving Reiki. This is the goal! But there’s a “but” …

Minor issues such as a strained muscle or tension headache might, in fact, be rendered healed after Reiki. When it comes to more serious ailments, however, please take a beat before making decisions.

Before you stop taking any medication on the basis that you feel better, please check with the doctor who prescribed the medication. You may wish to have testing completed, or to ease off the medication slowly to avoid detrimental side effects. Before you go ahead and do some kickboxing with your torn rotator cuff, make sure it IS good and doesn’t just FEEL good right now.

Reiki is healing. It is just important to remember that, as with any medicine or healing modality, you sometimes want to make sure things are OK rather than just making that assumption.

See More on Reiki

If you haven’t already, be sure to check out:

“What is Reiki?”

“Finding a Reiki Practitioner“

“Prepare For Your Reiki Session“

“What to Expect During Your Reiki Healing Session.“

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Reiki: What to Expect During Your Session

When You Arrive

Many Reiki practitioners operate from their own homes, or travel to your home. This is perfectly fine, but may change the exact parameters of how the welcome occurs. 

If you are in a setting like a spa, chiropractor’s office, or dedicated Reiki studio, you should expect to be greeted warmly. These spaces are not always calm and serene! Don’t worry – in most of these spaces, you will be shown to a private room similar to those used for massage or other therapies. 

Beginning Your Experience

Your comfort is important, so your practitioner will likely ask about the room temperature and lighting. You may be offered aromatherapy, crystals, or other supporting services, if these options were not discussed during your initial consultation or when you made the appointment. Not all Reiki practitioners incorporate these paths within their practice; if they might be important to you, make it one of the questions you ask before you set your appointment!

Your practitioner will also review any specific issues you would like to address. They’ll briefly cover their process, so that you know what to expect within their personalized practice. 

Do I Undress?

Nope! Some Reiki practitioners will offer clients a moment to remove belts, and any jewelry that might be uncomfortable. Many will remind individuals who wear bras and pantyhose that those items may be best removed – if doing so will make the client more comfortable. If the client chooses to remove any items of clothing, the practitioner will step out of the room and provide time for that to happen. 

Beyond those minor things, Reiki is performed while everyone has clothes on. (Some spaces and organizations offer nude Reiki. These may include family-friendly nude campgrounds and adults-only resorts. Seek this only according to your comfort level.)

Now What?

In most cases, you will lie on a table similar to, or exactly like, a massage table or doctor’s exam table. Reiki can be performed with the client in any position, so if your experience needs to differ from that, you can experience just as much peace and healing. This article is focused on a typical in-office experience. 

Your practitioner will spend a few moments in prayer or meditation, either silently to themselves, or aloud with you. They may recite a poem or prayer to open the session.

Hands Off?

At this point, most practitioners will begin, either at your head or your feet. Most will use very light touches as they work to transfer and balance energy. This will not be the touch you might feel during a massage; there is no manipulation of muscles or manual movement of your body. Most practitioners will lift their hands away from the body when they reach sensitive areas, such as the genitals, breasts, and neck. If there are any places on your body that you would prefer not to have touched, please feel free to speak up! Your practitioner wants to know!

In some places, it is not legal to perform Reiki with your hands touching the client unless you have a massage therapy license or similar. Practitioners in these areas may choose to use an alternate method, completing the entire session without touch. While this can be more challenging for the practitioner, it is perfectly valid Reiki and will have the same impact as otherwise. If it is important to you to have one style or the other, feel free to ask!

During This Time

You may be silent. You may speak. You may sneeze, cough, cry, feel angry, or fall asleep. You may experience any of a full range of human emotions and needs. You may need to use the restroom. This is OK! You are a human, and you are expected to have emotions and needs. You are not a disruption to the session, and it is your needs that are paramount during this time!  Your practitioner can get started again when you are ready. 

Your practitioner may also speak. They may ask you questions about what you are feeling, or check in to make sure you are comfortable. Depending on your needs, they may help you to turn over, or adjust your headrest. Other than that, you are free to meditate, sleep, or whatever you like!

What Does Reiki Feel Like?

Reiki Feels different to different people. As your energy shifts and balances, you may feel warmth in one or more areas of your body. You may feel deep emotions, and should feel safe to do so. Some clients feel very mild physical tingling. Many clients feel only deep peace. 

As your practitioner works using Universal Energy to help you heal, there are almost an infinite number of sensations or feelings that you may experience. If anything feels uncomfortable, if you experience something you don’t understand, or if you feel any pain that did not exist prior to your session, know that you always have the authority to stop! Ask what’s happening, ask your practitioner to move to another place on your body, or stop the practice for a few moments to chat. It is your session!

As Your Session Ends

Your session itself will likely end several minutes before your “end time.” This is because a short discussion to help clear any emotions or issues that have arisen is often a necessary part of Reiki. If you removed a belt or bra, you will be given an opportunity to get your outfit back in the order you chose that morning. You should be offered some water, and time to adjust before you’re expected to make your way out into the real world. 

If your path might include additional appointments, you’ll likely be offered the opportunity to make your next appointment. If you’d like to return, it’s a good idea to go ahead and schedule! Your practitioner may work in several locations, so an appointment when one is convenient for you is best made early. 

Up Next:

Reiki: What to Expect After Your Session

Also see: “What Is Reiki?”

 “Reiki: Finding a Practitioner”

 “Reiki: Prepare for Your Healing Session”

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Reiki: Prepare for Your Healing Session

There really isn’t anything you have to do prior to your session. We’re here to discuss some of the ways that you may prepare to get the most from Reiki. Many clients are only able to do a couple of these things, while others rush in still anxious from their workday without having given any of them a thought. That’s OK! Your Reiki will still work!

If you have the time and inclination, consider some of these beneficial ways to prepare:

Eat Something

If you are hungry, your focus is likely to be on food! Your attention is not necessary in order for Reiki to be effectively performed. But you are likely to get more from the experience if you feel as comfortable as possible. Most humans do not feel comfortable when they are hungry!

Drink Something

Preferably, drink water. Reiki can encourage your body to eliminate waste more efficiently, and you need to be hydrated for that to happen. You will likely be offered water after your session, but it’s relatively important to go hydrated.

Reiki will not stop working because you had a Pepsi instead, but maybe have a water.

Meditate or Pray

Depending on your spiritual or religious path, meditation may take many forms. You might pray for a peaceful and successful session. You might use a repeated mantra, listen to guided meditation, or take an intentional walk. The idea is to take some time to connect with your spiritual side, and with any energy, spirit, deity, or entity that helps you to feel the potential for healing.

Give Yourself Time

Allow yourself a little extra time so that you can ignore the slow car in front of you, catch the next bus, or take that far-away parking space. You may also be asked to fill out some paperwork prior to your first session, so be sure to allow for a little extra time that day!

Dress Comfortably

Reiki is performed while everyone has clothes on, unless it is performed during a massage or other procedure where it would be normal to disrobe. You may or may not be given an opportunity to remove belts, uncomfortable bras, jewelry, or binding clothing. If you are able, just go comfy!

Know Your Needs

If you haven’t had an opportunity to talk to your practitioner in advance, you will likely be given that opportunity before they begin. It’s really part of the session! It can be helpful if you are able to express your reasons for seeking Reiki healing. Your practitioner will be able to tailor their practice to specifically address certain needs.

Things you might tell your practitioner include:

  • Specific emotional issues
  • Injuries, stiffness, pain, or tension in any area
  • Recent surgeries or medical procedures
  • Concerns you may have, even if they have not been diagnosed by a medical doctor

Up Next

We’ll look at what happens during an actual Reiki session in Reiki: What to Expect

If you haven’t checked out our other articles on Reiki, be sure to click back for “What is Reiki” and “How to Find a Reiki Practitioner.”

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Reiki: Finding a Reiki Practitioner

There are many, many people certified and trained to perform Reiki. People from all walks of life, all colors, shapes, sizes, and belief systems have taken the class.

So how do you know which one is right for you? Aren’t they all doing the same thing? Read on, my friend, we’re going on a journey for those answers!

Is All Reiki The Same?

In theory, yes, all Reiki is the same. In practice, that is not the case.

All Reiki practitioners will have learned that a poor diet and unwell body can inhibit mental clarity and energy flow within the practitioner. When this happens, the client may not receive the full benefit of the session.

That’s just an example. Beyond diet, lots of habits or issues can impact a practitioner’s effectiveness! Excessive alcohol use, lack of regular Reiki meditation and practice, and a chaotic lifestyle are other issues that might mean an individual isn’t in the best shape to practice Reiki.

Why does all of that matter? Because there are two distinct ways in which people generally experience Reiki. One is when they are at some sort of gathering, and they express difficulty with an issue that might be aided by Reiki. A friend jumps up and says, “I know Reiki! Come on!” They go to a private space, have a Reiki session, and wait to see what happens. When someone tells me that Reiki “didn’t do anything,” this is frequently the setting in which it was received.

In the other scenario, a client makes an appointment with a professional Reiki practitioner. That practitioner maintains a nutrient-dense diet, and stays well hydrated – almost as if it were their job 🙃. That practitioner regularly meditates on the Reiki Principles, and applies them within their daily life. They are intentionally prepared for the session, mentally and physically, and will call to reschedule if they are not. You, the client, arrive for your appointment and are given space to explain your needs. Your healing is tailored to the areas you would like to be addressed. When your session is over, you are offered water, and given time to discuss any feelings or concerns that have arisen. Your practitioner calls in a day or two to inquire about any specific areas that were addressed.

These experiences are not the same. They will not feel the same, and they will not heal the same. It is true that Reiki is available to all; that is fundamental to Reiki. It is untrue to say that all who practice Reiki do so with equal outcomes.

How Will I Know?

If the practitioner is a friend, you’ll know! If you’re regularly partying with this friend, see them participating in drama, and know that they regularly pack their bodies with fast food and soda, there are some clues! Don’t ignore your friend’s Reiki work necessarily – they’re trying something, and you might still benefit. But maybe this isn’t the person with whom you give Reiki a serious try. As their Reiki practice grows, so might their desire to shift their habits. Allow them grace for growth and space for learning.

What If I Have No Friends?

What happens if you don’t know anyone who is certified and trained, or don’t know anyone you’d trust?

Spas, massage therapists, chiropractors, wellness centers, herbalists, midwives, and even medical centers may hire or have contracts with Reiki professionals. It is perfectly acceptable to call one and ask! Much of the time, you’ll at least be able to get a recommendation. Local groups on your favorite social media platforms are also great places to ask for recommendations!

Once you have your recommendation, call or message the practitioner to ask for a consultation. In most places, this is free. During this consultation, ask questions! Ask if they do anything special that helps their Reiki practice, and, as we’ll discuss later, ask about their training.

Even more important than asking questions is just getting a “vibe.” If you aren’t comfortable with the practitioner, or if they give you a sense of an anxious, depressed, or scattered mental space, take a beat. Thank them, and leave without scheduling your appointment. Think about what really bothered you. Consider whether it was really the practitioner, or if you were hungry, annoyed, or had a headache and need to reevaluate them mentally.

It is likely that they will follow up with you. If you have decided that you want to make an appointment, then do so. If not, it is OK to say, “No, thank you. I have decided to pursue a different path.” Then you call a different massage therapist or spa and ask if they know of someone else. Easy peasy.

Aren’t There Levels? Do I Need a Reiki Master?

Since this article is being written by a professional Reiki Master, I’m going to say “yes!” But no. Or maybe. Yes, there are levels. Maybe it matters. Here’s why:

Most of the time, a Reiki Master will have had instruction and practice over several years. This kind of dedication generally indicates that they are willing to follow a lifestyle that supports their Reiki journey. Of course, that is not always the case.

Sometimes, a Reiki Master has not had years of Reiki practice and training. In some cases, this indicates that they bought a certificate online and watched some videos in order to become “trained.” In other cases, this means that the practitioner has had many years of similar study, is already adept and comfortable with energy work, and has proven their value as both a practitioner and an instructor. That last one is rare, and that practitioner will still have been required to take all of the training.

So, do you need someone with a certificate declaring them a “master” ? Not unless you believe that sheet of paper has special powers. It may be an indication that you have found a Reiki practitioner who is dedicated to the practice, and will provide excellent service. It may mean that this person paid extra to get their certificate, because it means they can make extra money teaching Reiki classes.

Ask them how they were trained – it’s OK. They expect it, and some even know each Reiki master who has trained under which other Reiki master in their “lineage” all the way back to the doctor who refined this method. Check out the practitioner’s website or brochures, to see if the focus seems to be on healing versus business. They have to make a living, so expect that they advertise and advocate for themselves! But once they get you to their space, what is the focus? You can figure out pretty quickly how you feel about the depth of their practice.

Some professional Reiki practitioners are simply happy practicing with a Level 1 certificate and training. THIS IS NOT BAD! This is personal choice, and it does not mean that their abilities or knowledge are lesser. Read that again. It is entirely possible to acquire knowledge and ability outside of formal education in every area of life. Reiki is not an exception. Far more important is a practitioner’s dedication to maintaining Reiki practice and study, and to a living a lifestyle that supports their practice.

Most Important

Without question, the most important factor in choosing a Reiki practitioner is YOU! If you are comfortable with someone, and feel as though they might help you on your healing path, they’re probably the right person for you. In the rare event that you do not feel more peaceful, the session feels awkward to you, or you don’t see a benefit after a session or two, it’s OK to seek out new recommendations. No Reiki practitioner should push you to continue if you are uncomfortable or are not feeling a benefit.

Next Up

How to Prepare for Your Reiki Healing Session

And if you haven’t already, click back to “What is Reiki?” for a no-nonsense explanation complete with studies and evidence and whatnot.

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What is a Sound Bath?

Discover what a Sound Bath is, and what it can do for you!

A sound bath is a healing and relaxation technique during which participants are “bathed” in sound. Participants are typically fully clothed, and no water bathing is involved! Various instruments are used to produce specific sounds, chosen to bring clearing, peace, or energy to the clients.

What Instruments Are Used?

Almost any instrument can be used as part of a sound bath experience. The human voice is common, as are singing bowls, gongs, drums, chimes, and bells. Occasionally animal voices are included, as are harps, organs, and a whole host of electronic devices. Sounds and music may be recorded or played live, and are frequently a mix of both. While live sound may seem preferable, including recorded pieces can help bolster a solo artist or ensure thorough sound saturation in a large space.

Will I Have to Perform or Play?

Absolutely not! If chanting is included, it may help you reap all the benefits of your sound bath if you participate, as discussed in this article from Buddha Weekly – don’t worry, it’s about the science, not promoting Buddhism. But the instructor, leader, or guide will usually play any live music. These instruments may seem simple, but using them just right to produce the intended tones does require some know-how. Your “job” will be to relax, to listen with an open mind, and to maybe move into some restorative yoga positions, depending on the session.

Traditional Gong with Mallet

What Do I Wear?

Something comfortable! Sound bath require little or no movement or effort on the part of the participants, so your best fitness gear isn’t necessary. Since you will be lying still for most or all of the experience, you may wish to dress in layers – whether it’s just cold in the winter, or the air conditioning kicks on and blows on you in the summer, layers can help. (Prior to COVID, I would have suggested that most indoor sound bath locations would have blankets to offer. With mandates causing changes to how we operate, many studios may not have those options available. You should always feel free to bring your own blanket!)

What Should I Bring?

Yourself. Maybe some water if you like to have it handy.

(As above, COVID has brought different rules. Please bring your own yoga or fitness mat. If you do not have one, a folded blanket can be substituted. Call ahead to see if items like bolsters or blocks will be provided. If not, you should be made to feel free to bring your own IF you have them. They are not necessary at all, but can aid in your comfort. Rules about shared food have curtailed some of the infused waters or teas that might have previously been made available, so bringing your own water is probably a plus.)

One of many styles of bells that may be used in sound baths

Is A Sound Bath a Religious Ritual?

Nope! OK, let me back up. Sound baths, in general, have a history all over the globe. A sound bath is not inherently linked to ANY specific religious or spiritual path.

With that said, religion can be part of a sound bath. A Christian church may offer a sound bath with a focus on listening for inspiration from God. A Buddhist temple may offer sound baths that bring focus to mindfulness or another part of spirituality. someone with a Hindu background (or many others) may include ideas of chakras as energy points.

Unless you have requested otherwise, a Prayana sound bath will not be connected to religion. We may reference energy points, but those are physical places on the body with which sound resonates. Meditation will be referenced, but may always be replaced with prayer if that is what your path indicates.

Because of this, I know of no specific path that is violated by attending a non-religious sound bath. While many religious systems tend to eschew different forms of energy healing, sound baths use physical sound waves, just as an herbalist uses physical plants. You are encouraged to have your religious leader contact us directly with any concerns. Open communications allows for full understanding for everyone, including us!

OK, But What Is The Point?

The point is physical relaxation, mental detox, and lasting increases in mood, deep sleep, and mental clarity. Sound baths include the benefits of a normal meditation practice, and kick it up a little, if you will. The music, instruments, or voice add a physical dimension, seemingly causing the body to find peace, even if the participant is not meditating, or is sleeping!

Seriously? I Don’t Buy That.

You are not alone. In fact, a few short years ago, I’d have said the same thing! And some scientists thought so, too. Turns out, lots of studies have been done on the matter.

Sound comes from sound waves. Sound waves are physical vibrations of particles. We usually think of sound waves as vibrations that occur through particles of air, though they can move through all kinds of media. The vibrations occur in a pattern that, when graphed, looks like a wave.

Bear with me – I’m getting there!

These waves stimulate your mind and body in specific ways, depending on both the frequency of the sound wave and its combination with other waves. A specific chord on the piano may sound very pleasant, unless a single note is added to make it spooky, clashing, or sad. Sound baths are similar, in that specific sounds are used to stimulate both body and mind.

A much longer and more science-y explanation can be found in this well-written article from Fair Observer.

Tuning Fork shown with Brass Singing Bowl

Is It Worth My Time?

I happen to think so, but you can find lots of different experiences online. Some are super-positive, while some bloggers hated every minute. Almost all of them say that giving it a try was worth it in the end, because even something that doesn’t work for you can help you discover what CAN!

If you discover sound isn’t your thing, talk to your coach! This is really important information as we work to find your path with you. Tactile (touch) meditation, movement meditation, Reiki, tapping, recitation, and loads of other options for wellness and healing are available to you. So try a sound bath when you get the chance, and let your coach know what you think!

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Shining Light Lemon Fluff (AIP Compliant)

This recipe is so easy, I hate to even call it a “recipe”. It’s more of a method you can use to make lots of different creations! That said, I needed a good recipe to help me represent “light” this week, and since this is a favorite of mine, I thought I’d share.

Fresh strawberries in lemon cream? This delightful little trick saved me several times over the summer!

Also, you’ll notice that this recipe is not low-fat, and does contain sugar in the form of honey. It is not compliant with a Keto diet unless you substitute the honey. It is definitely SWYPO for those of you on Whole 30. As always, don’t assume any recipe is healthy for your body’s needs unless all ingredients work for you 🙂

Ingredient Notes:

  • I’m not aware of a non-fat substitute for the coconut cream that I would be willing to endorse, so if you’d like to try a substitute, please let me know how it works out! I’m not able to try many of the products on the market, and its helpful for others whose bodies are better able to tolerate those things.
  • Coconut Cream is NOT the same thing as “Cream of Coconut”, which is a heavily sweetened product. You can buy coconut cream on its own, or chill a can of coconut milk and scoop off the solidified cream at the top. Coconut milk products from the refrigerator aisle, such as “Silk” brand, cannot be used here – they just won’t work at all.
  • Dried lemon zest is really not a great option here. There’s not enough water to rehydrate the zest, and you’ll wind up with little hard chunks of blah. Grab a fresh lemon, zest it first, then cut and squeeze fresh juice. It’s worth it!
  • The zest is only the yellow part of the lemon peel. You can remove it with a citrus zester, or just use a small grater to grate bits directly from the lemon.
Make it look fancy so you don’t feel like you’re missing out when dessert time comes around!

Here’s What You’ll Need:

  • 1 cup Coconut Cream, room temperature
  • 2 tsp honey, preferably raw and local
  • 1 tsp fresh lemon juice
  • zest from 1/2 of the lemon, finely grated or chopped

Here’s What You Do:

Put all of the ingredients into a mixing bowl, or the bowl of your stand mixer. Using the whisk attachment of your mixer, combine all ingredients and continue to whip until it gets fluffy. It won’t get like whipped dairy cream yet, so you’re looking for some added volume rather than any kind of “peaks” here. Now, grab a container, like a Mason jar, some Tupperware, or whatever you have. Pour in your lemon cream, and stick that puppy in the fridge. Wait an hour or so, and you’ll have delicious whipped lemon cream that’s way healthier than most of the flavored stuff out there.

After it has chilled, the whipped coconut cream holds up on its own, and can be used as a topping for almost anything you can think of!

You can eat a couple of bites straight out of the jar if you’re having an afternoon snack attack. Or, layer this with some berries for a lovely parfait. Use it as frosting on your healthy baked goods, or even freeze it for a few hours for a luscious, whole food ice cream replacement!

If you don’t love lemon, feel free to use this same method, adding cocoa powder, vanilla, orange peel, or maple syrup and cinnamon for a quick treat that won’t completely derail your attempts to eat better!